well when I bought her she was really small 2 inches. That was June 2015. During the summer she grew to 3 1/2 well I just found out it's a male.
Now I noticed she is a little moody when i pick her up,
? the crazy look and mouth wide open ready to bite
. I tried to see online if this might mean she is going through changes and noticed that they can be gravid and thought she was starting that change. He noticed me putting rocks and i tried to put a bucket for some privacy with a cloth over it so she can get rid of those infertile eggs but I was doing something and the tank was right by me and i noticed something black and sort of big under him.
But haven't ever read anywhere about this and i came upon a topic in this forum with pics and now I know he is a he! Those pictures helped so much especially for my little guy.
LOL. So I took down that little nesting spot and I guess I don't have to worry now of those eggs. I was a little worried I didn't want "her" to get sick or worse.