I have found males very difficult and while res are a very social critter it is better to have more than two. two get sick of each other wear as three or in my case four works great, you can actually notice them hanging out with differnt turtles over the months. if more than two turtles is not practical due to the size of the tank try putting in a toy. this may seem odd but when I first started introducing other turtles in with my baby girl years back she would not leave the other turtles alone and instead would try to bite them. then i put a piece of drift wood in the tank and she immediatly took to it. She would get under it and bounce it up and down for hours. She still does and the other turtles do as well. It was just enough to distract her long enough for her not to be territorial. also with a male it is better to put them in with more than one female. I have three females and one male. The male is smaller and outnumbered and still he can be annoying to all the girls. luckely there are enough of them to distribute his attention.
I have to disagree completely. Red eared sliders are most definately NOT social animals (except for the brief moment of mating) RES will fight with each other relentlessy, whether it's over territory or mating. I wouldn't reccomend more than 1, and definetely not more than 2. If they're all males, then you've got a territory war, if one of them is male, you've got mating fights, and all females leads to territory once again.
Sure toys might distract the turtles. But they'll start fighting again, that's more of a very temporary fix, that is, if it even works. Since the male is small and outnumbered he'll be bitten or physically hurt some other way be the males. 4 RES are very very very hard to keep, we're talking custom indoor aquariums or mammoth ponds outside.
All my information is from fellow members, online care sheets, RES care books and some conversations with the MPZ zoologist...