Other Turtle Discussion :: Adoption

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Post Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 2:30 am   Adoption

I am seriously considering giving my RES up for adoption. I am in no rush to get rid of him as I want to make sure the right person gets him.

I just don't feel like I give him the attention that he deserves. I take very good care of him and he isn't sick and his shell is in great shape.

I've had him for about five years now and he has a good set up, but I would really like to see him go somewhere with a pond.

This saddens me to no end, but if I could find the right people, I know it would be for the best.
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Post Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 8:56 am   

If you're giving him up because you don't give him attention, I'd strongly advise you to seriously consider keeping him. Turtles aren't social creatures, they're certainly not the attention grabbers dogs and cats are; in fact, so long as they have food and a good set up they could care less if they see you anymore than the five minutes a day it takes to feed them :-)...
I hope you can figure out what's best for you and your turtle... but in my opinion if he has a good set up and a caring owner he's got it pretty good and you should keep him.
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Post Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 9:29 am   

I agree with meg.. turtles don't need a lot of attention which is what makes them good pets. Once you get them a proper setup .. they take very little of your time yet give you all the enjoyment of watching their antics :)
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Post Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 4:43 pm   

I suppose I should clarify that it just isn't about the attention, I completely understand that. An issue for the future will be moving and space, as I am not sure what to expect when I go off to school for my masters.

I'm really hoping to find someone who is set somewhere for life, with a house and more so, a pond!

I have already gotten a reply from someone who lives on 3 plus acres. I was wondering if anyone has suggestions on screening questions, etc? I do not plan on giving him to anyone I see unfit. If need be, I am willing to give the set up he has right now for nothing.
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Post Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 5:13 pm   

Whatever you do, don't post it as "Free to a Good home" I did that and gave the guy about $400 worth of equipment for free and never heard from him again. God only knows what happened. I fear he just wanted the tank and ditched the turtles somewhere.

Ask what other pets they have and how they intend to make room for a new one. Ask what kind of setup they're willing to make for him and if they say they have a pond/tank already ask for pics. Make it clear that you're looking for someone who has experience with turtles. And don't give the setup for nothing. Ask for something in return. It'll weed out the 'freebie seekers'.
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Post Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 6:20 pm   

When I worked for a pet adoption, we always charged, not because we needed the money so much as it got rid of people who weren't that committed to animal care... if they weren't willing to spring $50 or 75 bucks, they certainly wouldn't be too pleased about vet bills. You can also ask about what they do with their current turtle (if they hav any) and why they want yours/ how they will treat it. If people get annoyed it's a good sign they won't be good owners... anyone who really wanted the turtle would be thrilled that his current owner cares enough to ask them questions :-)

Can I ask why having him while getting a masters is an issue (i'm sorry if I'm prying too much)... it's just I too am starting a master's program next year and I know graduate school can be hectic and housing less than spaceous, but as I think has been expressed to so many turtle owners in the past... two years of cramped living ( be it in a rubbermaid container or a smaller than optimal tank) won't kill a turtle provided he has a good owner like yourself who understands his needs and will a) make his stay as comfy as possible while its not ideal and b) will get him a great turtle home when they finally do settle in.
I just absolutely love having my turtle Leo, and although I'm sure at 3 inches he's much smaller than your guy, I'd be heartbroken to leave him even to the best of homes. Maybe you can find a relative's pond or house to put his tank in if your graduate housing doesn't have a lot of room?
But, if you choose to find him a home instead, I'm glad you're willing to be so stringent in picking new parents... I'm thinking either way he'll end up in a great home... good luck.
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Post Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 8:17 pm   

sweetgarbage, is this you from the old forum? If so, I remember you took good care of your turtle...sorry to hear your thinking of giving him up.

If you really feel you must give him up, try to find someone who has experience with that species of turtle (you know what questions to ask here). Get pictures of the kind of set-up he would be in (this is required by some turtle rescues for placing a turtle). I'd also want to know what problems they've encountered keeping turtles and if they have a good herp vet.

Good luck.
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Post Posted: Thu Nov 02, 2006 2:00 pm   

Thank you to everyone who has replied so far.

I haven't written anything about the tank, filter, etc in my listing. I pretty much figured someone would take just for those things.

I haven't totally decided whether or not I will give him up. Everyone makes such good points. And darn it, I love the huge galoot.

Yes, marisa, it is me. It is nice to see a familiar face. :)
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